More important than who you marry? (Hint: How you choose to treat him or her) Ep. 011
More important than who you marry? How you choose to treat them. (Tweet this)
The person you marry will change over time. So, you (almost literally) won’t be married to the same person in 10 or 20 years from now.
What happens when the right person changes into the ‘wrong’ person?
You don’t have control over how that person changes or who they become, but you do have control over how you choose to treat him or her.
Let’s say that you marry the wrong person, how you treat that person doesn’t become less important.
Let’s say that you marry the right person, are you now allowed to treat him or her poorly? No!
How you treat the right person is still more important than simply marrying the right person.
Right person or wrong person, how you treat him or her is more important than if you ‘got lucky’. Right person or wrong person doesn’t give you a reason to treat him or her poorly. How you choose to treat your partner could even turn a ‘wrong’ person into a ‘right’ person.
Look inward first before claiming to have married the wrong person.
And how about you? Are you looking inward and working on being a right person?
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